It has been exactly a month since the last time I posted anything. I have kind of been a little lazy to pick up my big ol husky laptop and type anything. One; because I had no idea what to write about. Two; I am worn out after a day with Dorrian and just want to lay on my couch alone. But I am trying to make blogging a priority but to be honest I lose my motivation because I don't get many readers. Those who do read though, I truly appreciate it. I want to build my blog and attract others to follow it, but I know I do not have anything unique to get people interested. That will change -- soon.
I want to share topics that some people enjoy reading. One of those being is being a mother at a very young age. I met my husband whenever I was in high school. I graduated with my diploma before having my son and getting married. I was 18 whenever I got pregnant with Dorrian and gave birth to him at 19. There are many people who look down at women that young having children and honestly I do see why. Thing is though I supported myself with my fiance, who is now my husband, not my parents. Before having my son even before meeting my husband, I was never the "typical" teenager. I never partied or did drugs. I never even hung out with friends really, to be honest. I was pretty boring. I was a little too mature for my age and just did not find that sort of stuff interesting. After having my son though, I truly grew up. I am not officially an adult and it does have it's perks. I do miss being a teenager sometimes though and not having any responsibilities. I would not change my life for the world now though. There are days where I think to myself how the heck can I do this. But I am twenty years old and have a toddler, I am also married. Let me tell you... I am the best mother and wife there is too. Whenever you see a teenager with a kid, do not always assume the worse. Yes I do not believe there should be women 18 or younger with kids, but it happens. We can not do a dang thing about it either. The way I see it, if you are too young to be a parent then you are too young to be having sex. But we have no control over the world, God does. I am just happy God blessed me with a beautiful and happy little boy. He believed I would make a good mother so he gave me one of his to raise and love. For that, I am so thankful for.
This post was a little out of character for me. I do not usually post my opinions because there are many people that are so judgemental that they have to argue and give me their two cents on the way I think of a topic. Why? I have no idea. But I do not care. I will do opinion posts every week. I may just make something out of it like. Opinion Wednesday or something interesting like that.
Also, my husband and I are thinking about having another baby. I want a little girl, sooooo bad. I think Dorrian is at the proper age to introduce a sibling. That way they can grow up together and there is not that awkward age gap between them. Dorrian would be 27 months old if I were to get pregnant right now. To me that is a good age to have a sibling. My brothers and I are 7 years apart... so yeah it is a little weird. I am excited, so pray that God will bless me with a little girl with red hair!
Thank you for reading everyone. I hope you all had a blessed day! I am going fishing Thursday so I am very excited. I love fishing so much, it is so relaxing and just fun. Well gosh.. here I go blabbing again. Vote for my blog on top baby, you will find it to the top right corner of my blog.
God bless!
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